<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:jellypod="https://jellypod.ai/namespace/1.0" xmlns:podcast="https://podcastindex.org/namespace/1.0" xmlns:psc="http://podlove.org/simple-chapters"><channel><title><![CDATA[The Modern Love Roundtable]]></title><description><![CDATA[Modern Love Roundtable brings together 5 voices to dissect the biggest questions in dating, relationships, and modern love. Erica Bell moderates a panel of truth-tellers:

Each week, they tackle controversial topics, relationship dilemmas, and the debates everyone’s already having with their friends. No filter. No mercy. No apologies.]]></description><link>https://behavioral-intelligence-b-bycwl5.jellypod.com</link><generator>Powered by Jellypod (https://www.jellypod.com)</generator><lastBuildDate>Sat, 19 Sep 2026 05:25:04 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://behavioral-intelligence-b-bycwl5.jellypod.com/rss" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><pubDate>Sun, 15 Feb 2026 21:07:22 GMT</pubDate><copyright><![CDATA[Copyright 2026 The Modern Love Roundtable]]></copyright><language><![CDATA[en]]></language><podcast:locked owner="feed+41c07b37@podcasts.jellypod.com">yes</podcast:locked><podcast:guid>dde35d41-126b-4e5d-9dc8-263570d1f5d5</podcast:guid><itunes:author>ERICA BELL</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Modern Love Roundtable brings together 5 voices to dissect the biggest questions in dating, relationships, and modern love. Erica Bell moderates a panel of truth-tellers: Each week, they tackle controversial topics, relationship dilemmas, and the debates </itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary>Modern Love Roundtable brings together 5 voices to dissect the biggest questions in dating, relationships, and modern love. Erica Bell moderates a panel of truth-tellers:

Each week, they tackle controversial topics, relationship dilemmas, and the debates everyone’s already having with their friends. No filter. No mercy. No apologies.</itunes:summary><itunes:type>episodic</itunes:type><itunes:owner><itunes:name>ERICA BELL</itunes:name><itunes:email>feed+41c07b37@podcasts.jellypod.com</itunes:email></itunes:owner><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:category text="How To"/><itunes:category text="Self-Improvement"/><itunes:image href="https://auth.jellypod.ai/storage/v1/object/public/CoverImages/org_01K7D48TW65GNMFBCD297R7EJD/resized_ChatGPT-Image-Mar-24-2026-08_40_44-PM.jpg"/><item><title><![CDATA[When Attraction Turns Into Expectation]]></title><description><![CDATA[Four hosts unpack the messy gap between early attraction and real commitment, from the first 30 days of high-intensity dating to the Day 70 to Day 108 lag before men say I love you. They debate how pursuit, emotional expectations, and the end of the chase can turn excitement into confusion or a sudden retreat.]]></description><link>https://behavioral-intelligence-b-bycwl5.jellypod.com/episodes/d34443a3-ccfd-41e1-9775-b74b80a9eeba</link><guid isPermaLink="false">d34443a3-ccfd-41e1-9775-b74b80a9eeba</guid><pubDate>Fri, 31 Jul 2026 03:43:10 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://op3.dev/e,pg=dde35d41-126b-4e5d-9dc8-263570d1f5d5/auth.jellypod.ai/storage/v1/object/public/Podcasts/org_01K7D48TW65GNMFBCD297R7EJD/d34443a3-ccfd-41e1-9775-b74b80a9eeba/audio.mp3?v=fb929b56-9c05-4ea2-bbe8-fff1a4527a61" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:generator uri="https://www.jellypod.com"></podcast:generator><podcast:episode>5</podcast:episode><itunes:episode>5</itunes:episode><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Four hosts unpack the messy gap between early attraction and real commitment, from the first 30 days of high-intensity dating to the Day 70 to Day 108 lag before men say <em>I love you</em>. They debate how pursuit, emotional expectations, and the end of the chase can turn excitement into confusion or a sudden retreat.</p>]]></content:encoded><podcast:transcript language="en" rel="captions" type="application/x-subrip" url="https://auth.jellypod.ai/storage/v1/object/public/Podcasts/d34443a3-ccfd-41e1-9775-b74b80a9eeba/captions_1785469385.srt"></podcast:transcript><itunes:author>ERICA BELL</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Four hosts unpack the messy gap between early attraction and real commitment, from the first 30 days of high-intensity dating to the Day 70 to Day 108 lag before men say I love you. They debate how pursuit, emotional expectations, and the end of the chase</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary>Four hosts unpack the messy gap between early attraction and real commitment, from the first 30 days of high-intensity dating to the Day 70 to Day 108 lag before men say I love you. They debate how pursuit, emotional expectations, and the end of the chase can turn excitement into confusion or a sudden retreat.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:13:24</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://auth.jellypod.ai/storage/v1/object/public/CoverImages/org_01K7D48TW65GNMFBCD297R7EJD/resized_ChatGPT-Image-Mar-24-2026-08_40_44-PM.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Ten Minutes to Judge, Six Months to Know?]]></title><description><![CDATA[Dating experts and skeptics clash over the idea that long-term relationship potential is revealed in the first ten minutes, then unpack why the six-month mark often becomes the real test of commitment. The discussion digs into swipe culture, red flags, emotional labor, and whether compatibility is a genuine read or just projection.]]></description><link>https://behavioral-intelligence-b-bycwl5.jellypod.com/episodes/4943f754-6400-476e-b02c-c7a373e41c06</link><guid isPermaLink="false">4943f754-6400-476e-b02c-c7a373e41c06</guid><pubDate>Wed, 29 Jul 2026 23:05:28 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://op3.dev/e,pg=dde35d41-126b-4e5d-9dc8-263570d1f5d5/auth.jellypod.ai/storage/v1/object/public/Podcasts/org_01K7D48TW65GNMFBCD297R7EJD/4943f754-6400-476e-b02c-c7a373e41c06/audio.mp3?v=42746e34-7643-4059-9b4f-e5ad7ff1e715" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:generator uri="https://www.jellypod.com"></podcast:generator><podcast:episode>4</podcast:episode><itunes:episode>4</itunes:episode><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dating experts and skeptics clash over the idea that long-term relationship potential is revealed in the first ten minutes, then unpack why the six-month mark often becomes the real test of commitment. The discussion digs into swipe culture, red flags, emotional labor, and whether compatibility is a genuine read or just projection.</p>]]></content:encoded><podcast:transcript language="en" rel="captions" type="application/x-subrip" url="https://auth.jellypod.ai/storage/v1/object/public/Podcasts/4943f754-6400-476e-b02c-c7a373e41c06/captions_1785366322.srt"></podcast:transcript><itunes:author>ERICA BELL</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Dating experts and skeptics clash over the idea that long-term relationship potential is revealed in the first ten minutes, then unpack why the six-month mark often becomes the real test of commitment. The discussion digs into swipe culture, red flags, em</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary>Dating experts and skeptics clash over the idea that long-term relationship potential is revealed in the first ten minutes, then unpack why the six-month mark often becomes the real test of commitment. The discussion digs into swipe culture, red flags, emotional labor, and whether compatibility is a genuine read or just projection.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:11:38</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://auth.jellypod.ai/storage/v1/object/public/CoverImages/org_01K7D48TW65GNMFBCD297R7EJD/resized_ChatGPT-Image-Mar-24-2026-08_40_44-PM.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Why Chemistry Fades and Compatibility Lasts]]></title><description><![CDATA[This episode challenges the myth that intense early chemistry predicts lasting love, drawing on research and real relationship fallout to argue for slower-building stability and shared values. The hosts also unpack dating “tests,” emotional availability, and how anxious and avoidant attachment patterns can turn romance into a toxic game.]]></description><link>https://behavioral-intelligence-b-bycwl5.jellypod.com/episodes/01b6fabb-cf35-4e48-9912-c17796703559</link><guid isPermaLink="false">01b6fabb-cf35-4e48-9912-c17796703559</guid><pubDate>Wed, 22 Jul 2026 23:05:24 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://op3.dev/e,pg=dde35d41-126b-4e5d-9dc8-263570d1f5d5/auth.jellypod.ai/storage/v1/object/public/Podcasts/org_01K7D48TW65GNMFBCD297R7EJD/01b6fabb-cf35-4e48-9912-c17796703559/audio.mp3?v=1af7e471-6653-4059-9a80-c40bac446d40" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:generator uri="https://www.jellypod.com"></podcast:generator><podcast:episode>3</podcast:episode><itunes:episode>3</itunes:episode><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This episode challenges the myth that intense early chemistry predicts lasting love, drawing on research and real relationship fallout to argue for slower-building stability and shared values. The hosts also unpack dating “tests,” emotional availability, and how anxious and avoidant attachment patterns can turn romance into a toxic game.</p>]]></content:encoded><podcast:transcript language="en" rel="captions" type="application/x-subrip" url="https://auth.jellypod.ai/storage/v1/object/public/Podcasts/01b6fabb-cf35-4e48-9912-c17796703559/captions_1784761519.srt"></podcast:transcript><itunes:author>ERICA BELL</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>This episode challenges the myth that intense early chemistry predicts lasting love, drawing on research and real relationship fallout to argue for slower-building stability and shared values. The hosts also unpack dating “tests,” emotional availability, </itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary>This episode challenges the myth that intense early chemistry predicts lasting love, drawing on research and real relationship fallout to argue for slower-building stability and shared values. The hosts also unpack dating “tests,” emotional availability, and how anxious and avoidant attachment patterns can turn romance into a toxic game.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:12:35</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://auth.jellypod.ai/storage/v1/object/public/CoverImages/org_01K7D48TW65GNMFBCD297R7EJD/resized_ChatGPT-Image-Mar-24-2026-08_40_44-PM.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Why Men Fade After 30 Days]]></title><description><![CDATA[The hosts unpack the early dating high, from constant texts and lavish effort to the sudden fade that often follows once the novelty wears off. They debate whether this is honest evaluation, emotional fraud, or a bait-and-switch, then explore the shift into the 90-day peace audit and how women get pushed into the “Cool Girl” trap.]]></description><link>https://behavioral-intelligence-b-bycwl5.jellypod.com/episodes/d490f4c8-1bb9-4401-bb9f-2d87452241b8</link><guid isPermaLink="false">d490f4c8-1bb9-4401-bb9f-2d87452241b8</guid><pubDate>Wed, 15 Jul 2026 23:05:26 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://op3.dev/e,pg=dde35d41-126b-4e5d-9dc8-263570d1f5d5/auth.jellypod.ai/storage/v1/object/public/Podcasts/org_01K7D48TW65GNMFBCD297R7EJD/d490f4c8-1bb9-4401-bb9f-2d87452241b8/audio.mp3?v=da531404-649a-4e6f-952d-6532cdabccc2" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:generator uri="https://www.jellypod.com"></podcast:generator><podcast:episode>2</podcast:episode><itunes:episode>2</itunes:episode><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The hosts unpack the early dating high, from constant texts and lavish effort to the sudden fade that often follows once the novelty wears off. 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They debate whether this is honest evaluation, emotional fraud, or a bait-and-switch, then explore the shift into the 90-day peace audit and how women get pushed into the “Cool Girl” trap.</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:14:10</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://auth.jellypod.ai/storage/v1/object/public/CoverImages/org_01K7D48TW65GNMFBCD297R7EJD/resized_ChatGPT-Image-Mar-24-2026-08_40_44-PM.jpg"/><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Dating the Vibe vs. Building Real Partnership]]></title><description><![CDATA[The hosts break down why attraction, chemistry, and “potential” can mask deeper incompatibility, and why consistency matters more than surface charm. They also dig into the month-three-to-month-six reality check, conflict patterns, and how to tell genuine relationship material from a performance.]]></description><link>https://behavioral-intelligence-b-bycwl5.jellypod.com/episodes/16a72f0a-fb17-4146-b213-d5bad27cd7f1</link><guid isPermaLink="false">16a72f0a-fb17-4146-b213-d5bad27cd7f1</guid><pubDate>Wed, 08 Jul 2026 23:04:19 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://op3.dev/e,pg=dde35d41-126b-4e5d-9dc8-263570d1f5d5/auth.jellypod.ai/storage/v1/object/public/Podcasts/org_01K7D48TW65GNMFBCD297R7EJD/16a72f0a-fb17-4146-b213-d5bad27cd7f1/audio.mp3?v=d9349394-a9ae-4079-9fa1-e3d4838207bf" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:generator uri="https://www.jellypod.com"></podcast:generator><podcast:episode>1</podcast:episode><itunes:episode>1</itunes:episode><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The hosts break down why attraction, chemistry, and “potential” can mask deeper incompatibility, and why consistency matters more than surface charm. 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